The Shocking Revelations About Somizi Mhlongo’s Relationship With His Daughter

In a recent podcast interview, South Africa was taken aback by shocking revelations about the strained relationship between Somizi Mhlongo and his daughter, Bahumi. The interview featured Bahumi’s mother, Palesa Madisakwane, who openly shared heartbreaking details about their past, exposing the famed media personality in a way that few expected.

A Relationship Built on Misinformation

Palesa revealed that she met Somizi when she was just 17 years old. At the time, their relationship was casual, but by the age of 19, she believed it had become serious. However, her world was turned upside down when she became pregnant at 20. Upon sharing the news with Somizi, she was met with complete denial.

According to Palesa, Somizi refused to accept responsibility, insisting that it was impossible for him to father a child because he was in a relationship with a man. This revelation shocked Palesa, as she had never suspected that Somizi was gay. Instead of embracing fatherhood, Somizi distanced himself, leading to a challenging pregnancy for Palesa.

Abandonment and a Lack of Support

Palesa described her struggle, saying that Somizi never provided any support during her pregnancy. To make matters worse, negative influences in his circle reportedly reinforced his belief that a gay man could not father a child, making him even more detached from the situation.

At home, Palesa faced further challenges. Her mother, an alcoholic, was not attentive, leaving Palesa to navigate the hardships of pregnancy alone. The only people who provided support were Somizi’s biological sister, Joyce, and his cousin, Fiso. They were the ones who stood by her side during the most difficult moments.

Life After Bahumi’s Birth

When Palesa gave birth, she was in a dire financial situation, unable to afford baby clothes or basic necessities. Despite Somizi’s fame and fortune at the time, he never stepped in to help. Instead, it was his sister, Joyce, who stepped up and took care of Bahumi when she was just 10 months old. Palesa explained that this was not because Somizi wanted to be involved in his daughter’s life, but because Joyce felt a sense of duty toward her niece.

Contrary to public perception, Bahumi did not grow up enjoying a lavish lifestyle. While Somizi was known for his extravagant spending on partners like Mohale Motaung, he did not provide the same level of care for his own daughter. Palesa emphasized that Bahumi never experienced the luxury that many assumed she did, never flying in private jets or being spoiled the way Somizi’s partners were.

A Father Who Never Apologized

What hurt Palesa the most was that in over 30 years, Somizi has never apologized for how he treated her and Bahumi. Despite his fame and success, he never acknowledged his absence or tried to make amends for the way he neglected his daughter. This remained a deep wound for Palesa, who hoped that one day he would take accountability for his actions.

As Bahumi grew older, she started confronting her father about his absence and lack of support. Their relationship began improving only recently, but according to Palesa, it remains strained. She believes that one day, Bahumi may choose to speak out publicly about her experience and reveal the full extent of her father’s shortcomings.

The Hypocrisy of Public Perception

One of the most infuriating aspects for Palesa was the way the media misrepresented Somizi’s role in her life. A notable example was when she was involved in a car accident that required facial surgery. Reports falsely claimed that Somizi had covered the medical costs, painting him as a caring and responsible figure. In reality, he only visited her in the hospital with flowers, while her family and friends pooled money to pay for the surgery. Those who had supported her were understandably upset when they saw Somizi taking credit for something he had not contributed to.

Bahumi’s Real Father Figure

Palesa shared that she later met a man when Bahumi was just one year old, and they eventually got married when Bahumi was around seven or eight. This man became the father figure that Somizi never was. He was present for birthdays, school events, and important milestones, providing the love and guidance that Somizi failed to give.

Despite this, Bahumi still acknowledges Somizi as her biological father. However, she sees her stepfather as the real paternal figure in her life, as he was the one who raised and nurtured her.

Somizi’s Priorities: Partners Over His Child

Another painful revelation was that while Somizi was unwilling to support his daughter financially, he had no problem spending exorbitant amounts of money on his partners. Palesa expressed her frustration at seeing him lavish Mohale and other partners with expensive gifts and vacations, while Bahumi never received the same treatment.

This pattern of neglect became evident to the public when Somizi’s relationship with Mohale became a major topic in South African media. People assumed that Bahumi was also benefiting from his wealth, but in reality, she had to fend for herself.

The Future of Bahumi and Somizi’s Relationship

As the interview concluded, Palesa expressed her hope that one day, Somizi would change and truly embrace his role as a father. However, she remains skeptical, given his history of prioritizing his own image over meaningful personal relationships.

The interview has sparked widespread debate on social media, with many South Africans criticizing Somizi for his neglectful behavior. Others have expressed sympathy for Palesa and admiration for how she raised Bahumi despite the challenges.

While it remains to be seen how this revelation will impact Somizi’s public image, one thing is clear: the world now knows the truth about the kind of father he has been. Whether he will finally take accountability remains an open question.